with the relationship. This is a very crucial step in a because it is one of the

most common beak up reason. Boredom.

What if your partner loses interest in you? How do you save your relationship from

being eaten away by dullness? Here are some tips:

1. Give your partner some space. A change of atmosphere, environment, or company

would help a lot. Go on a vacation alone or visit your parents. Let your partner

hang out with his/her friends. Giving your partner a space would make him/her

re-realize your worth. While doing that, take the opportunity to give yourself a

break. Go out. Shop. So that when you get back to each other, you both feel

refreshed and happy.

2. Have a makeover. Maybe your partner is getting bored with how you look. He/She

must have loved you for what you are, but changing looks adds more excitement to the

relationship. It is one of those surprises that would certainly catch him/her off

guard and notice you once again.

3. Do not nag. Do not ask where your partner is going after work or what he/she is

doing. Do not call up just to check on your partner. Nothing is more irritating than

having somebody track your every move. This shows that you do not trust your

partner. Trust is one of the main ingredients to a lasting relationship. Without it,

any relationship wont work.

4. Try new things. New dishes, new house design, new activities. Novelty adds spice

to a boring relationship. You can get new ideas from magazines, forums, chat lines

and articles. Try something new every other day or once every week. This would keep

your partner guessing what you would be up to next time.

5. Be sensitive. Talk with him. You partner might have some problems but you just do

not realize it. Communication is important in a relationship because it opens doors

for analysis, improvement and understanding. Let him/her know that you are always

ready to listen and help them in any way.

6. Always smile. Nothing brightens up the day than a simple smile. Smile is

contagious. Even if your partner feels gloomy, he/she will lighten up when you

smile.

7. Show your partner how much you love him/her. You do not have to go to the extent

of buying special gifts or giving expensive vacation treats. You can show your love

in little ways. Give your partner a back rub after work. Or offer to wash his/her

car. Cook his/her favorite food. Scrub his/her back. These little things show that

you still care.

If all these fail, then maybe you are not really meant for each other. Keeping a

relationship strong takes effort and strategy. You need to have your relationship

planned out if you want it work. You should know what to do if a certain instance

happens or a problem occurs. But the effort must come from both sides. It just aint

worth it if you’re the only one saving the boat. In that case, let go. It means that

he/she’s already lost interest. Try again, and make sure it works this time.

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